Harmony

I'm not sure I should even breathe this aloud; perhaps I'll jinx myself or spoil the moment. I'll do my best to not sound as though I'm gloating, but I can honestly say that my life is pretty damn near perfect. It's about time, too! After the year we've had, it is sweet relief to be able to openly admit that things are going so well. Mind you, we still have the daily issues, the bump and grind of hard work and the challenges of the not-so-hot economy. But overall, I feel that life, my life, has found harmony.

My children are at an extremely fun age. I didn't think I would enjoy Marissa being 6 as much as I do, but its turning out to be one of my most favorite stages! She's such a sweet sweet girl! She's smart and enthusiastic and just so full of life! I love it! She has really blossomed at school and even though she's a bit of a chatter box, I think for the most part she's doing very well. She's quieter at home and more thoughtful. She's also much more helpful than she's ever been. She does chores, helps with her brother and her and I share the most interesting conversations. She is an absolute delight...

Christian has hit the terrible 3's. Whoever came up with the "terrible 2's" obviously never had children. 2's were a breeze! 3's are a nightmare! Well, only a nightmare when the 3 year old doesn't get his way. Christian is talkative, funny, strong-willed and persistent. He's enjoyable because he's communicating so much better, but because he's communicating so much better...he's also much more demanding. Well, at least I know that this is just a phase and soon I'll be wishing he was still 3 and allowing me to cuddle him in my lap. As we know, boys grow up and their mother will not always be their number 1 gal. I'll take this while I can and appreciate him being so young.

Marty is my best friend. We're closer now than we've ever been in the almost 9 years we've been together. He's a saint. I say that a million times, I know, but its the truth. He's solid and steady and just always knows how to handle any situation. He's my level head and my voice of reason; anyone that knows me knows I definitely need a voice of reason! I just feel so connected to him and confident in our relationship. I don't question his love for me or the kids and I know that I bring so much to his life as well. I feel balanced.

Life is good. I definitely feel like I see the rainbow I've been searching for!

My Baby Boy is THREE

It's hard to believe that Christian is already three. He is just the sweetest little guy in the whole world. He is constantly cracking jokes, giving kisses and hugs and the stuff he says will just make you turn your head and listen!

This year, we celebrated with a Monster Party. He loved every minute of it. We had the party at a local park and we could not have asked for better weather.

I wish I could say that I love how big he is getting, but its hard for me to see my "baby" grow so fast. With Marissa, I couldn't wait for each milestone, but with Christian each day is just one step closer the realization that I no longer have a baby boy. He's wise beyond his years and has the best sense of humor. He's curious and strong and thoughtful and inquistive. He's so much like his daddy.

Speaking of daddy, Christian absolutely adores Marty. He follows him around, mimics everything that he does and will brush me off to the side to spend some quality time with his "best bud". I don't really mind it, as I love to see my husband in this role. I really do love my Loftus men. Christian constantly tells me that his daddy is his buddy and that when he grows up he's going to be a "fixer helper" like his dad and build things.

Christian is all boy; running, jumping, climbing and crashing. My father in law wasn't lying when he said most boys should be born with helmets on; all they do is run into walls. That pretty much sums up Christian's activity level. He's athletic and nimble. I have a feeling he's going to wear me out!

So here begins another year, I anticipate great things for my young man. I'm so proud of him; of both my children. They are such good little people!